Forced into Marriage?
Have you been told unless you marry your dating or engaged partner you stand to be fired, abused or punished? If yes, do you think this is empowering, healthy or love? Are you in need of help?
Marriage is a very serious commitment and forced marriages do not work! There are also many different types, procedures and cultures of marriage around the world. However, regardless of the country, religion or culture, whenever two minds or people are not moving in the same direction, belief or conclusion there is guaranteed to be some form of debate or divide with one person feeling rejected, alienated, frustrated or even angry.
Have you noticed in your relationship, culture or religion only when you "both" agree do you both smile; feel happy and then comes the kisses, hugs, gifts and even romance? Anything less is conflict, frustration and unhappiness within and around.
Historically it is perceived that most men do the asking or persuading of marriage. It could even be argued depending on your culture more women around the world are forced into marriage and even child birth. However, a new 2010 study has just discovered more men are being forced into marriage in the EU.
As a male or female have you ever been told "Marry me or else" or "If you love me then marry me" but then again such words could be a valid cry or approach of sincerity and meaningful love of the heart. He or she does not want to lose you.
No matter what we want to encourage "marriage" and happy, united and fruitful two-household parenting as much as we can especially as we move towards 2050 and the UN forecasts an additional 6.7 Billion people on planet earth.
Also, as a planet of people we are facing a huge workforce shortage as we move towards 2015 and beyond. This requires positive people with positive mindsets and energy who are committed and devoted to male and female unity in populating countries and parenting households around the world.
Perhaps all of the above is a stark reminder to the world [of people] how we think, act, love and share does affect us all short or long-term. Thus, to sit idly and ignore togetherness, peace, education, employment, charity or love is perilous. Please reconsider your contribution to the world in the now and future.
Have a great day.
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